brake up

broken up with your boy friend/ girl griend is difficult. i know it's very hard for you. and if you take the wrong decision, you will regret and you will stressed up after that and jealosy would come to your brain. not only you that would be sad, every people arround you who know the story would be feel the pain too. Therefore, it took special legislation so that breakup cant't disturb public order. it for you just not destroy your personal belongings beside you and don't hurt yourself like punch to the wall, or scratching your hand. it's very uncool.

1. the first rule if you want to broke up is don't do with a SMS. cause when you sms your couple they wouldn't know what you feel what you want. and they would say you're a pussy. when we tlking kindly with your couple they would understand why it have to be end and there's no conclusion if you go through the relationship.

2. find a save place. far from glassware or something expensive. and far from something that can reminds him/her with a gitf that he/her had gave you in the past.

3. you must to be sure! when you broke they up. mostly they would cried and bary heart self in the grave. and then you cheer them up. and they walk to you slowly but sure. 2months after that your ex have another feeling with a person who they like. you have a feeling kinda jealous and you just realize you don't really want to broke up. and you cried all night it wouldn't make him/her back. so, you must be so sure and be tough you can through this.

4. don't be overact. when you broke her/him up, you can't release all of anger to your couple. it will be bad broke up and you both will be always angry each. you have to be open again, left it slowly, be friend after that. show what your feeling if you have crush on other.

5. end before the end. but if you're already convinced, then do it! a prolonged bad relationship will bear fruit only hate, hurt, depression and invite cheating. the sooner you end it, the sooner she/he can continue living well.

6. say apologize and all the reason why it have to be end. don't blame each other like you're always right. but do not go back and forth. good, but still broke!

7. have to deal. you can't be selfish if you don't want to. your relationship isn't good as before. if you want better relationship you should start it all over from the begining.

8. remembering. remember what she/he had done to you. a good thing a bad thing that they had done to you. you had spent your life with your ex. and let it become a memories and we can pick it up someday.

9. give a time for adaptation. and we have to get on with life. it will be hard for you both. if you cried once it's okay but not often.

10. find someone else and don't talk about the past. you can tell your story if the new one ask for it.

so, don't lie to your feeling. nothing to be happen after that. it would be fine. cheer up do your best. have your better life. go through your own future. hehe